A man’s name can play a bigger role in dating than you might think, heavily influencing first impressions. A name alone can suggest certain personality traits or stir up specific feelings, affecting attraction and connection long before two people actually meet.
1. Adam
Adam often comes across as one of the most boring names a guy could have. Being the name of the first man on Earth, it feels like it was picked purely out of tradition, without any creativity.
If he’s the youngest in the family, maybe his parents were out of ideas—but if he’s the oldest, there’s really no excuse. A man named Adam might end up being just as bland as his name sounds.
2. Seth
Seth tends to bring up negative associations. If the guy you’re eyeing is named Seth, it might be a subtle warning sign! In Ancient Egypt, Seth represented chaos, destruction, and anger. Considering the ancient beliefs, you might even say the name carries a bad omen.
3. Buddy
Is he your boyfriend or your dog? It’s pretty surprising that some men are actually named Buddy—not just as a nickname, but as their full legal name. A guy named Buddy might be just as plain and uninspired as his name hints.
4. Donald
Were you expecting another Donald? Regardless of where you stand politically, the name Donald has taken quite a hit in recent years. Not every Donald is a problem, of course, but it’s still wise to tread carefully if you’re considering one for a partner.
5. Kyle
We all remember a Kyle from school—the kid who was never exactly friend material. He probably smelled like Monster energy drinks and stale cigarettes, while wearing the worst graphic tees imaginable. Sadly, teenage Kyles grow into adult Kyles—and if you’re thinking of dating one, you might want to reconsider.
6. Chad
Chad (and its cousins like Chud and Chet—yes, even Tom Hanks’ son) often comes across as lacking depth. People with the name Chad tend to be just that—Chad, with not much else going on. If you’re searching for something more meaningful, you might want to look elsewhere.
7. Tyler
Ask any teacher and they’ll likely tell you: Tyler is a name tied to troublemakers. Boys named Tyler might grow older, but that wild streak often sticks around. If you’re hoping they’ll outgrow it, you might end up disappointed.
8. Adonis
Adonis isn’t super common in the U.S.—yet. But it’s starting to gain traction, so watch out! In Greek mythology, Adonis was known for being breathtakingly handsome, and guys too obsessed with their looks tend to be unbearably full of themselves.
9. Chase
Chase is another trendy name that might raise an eyebrow. Striking a balance between a name that’s classic and one that’s too “now” can be tough, but Chases usually have energy to spare—sometimes too much. If you’re dreaming of a quiet, peaceful life, you might want to skip dating a Chase.
10. Herbert
If you meet a Herbert, he’s probably way too old for you anyway! Seriously, nobody born in recent decades is named Herbert. Plus, when you introduce him to your friends and family, they’ll instantly think of that one Family Guy character—and that’s not the vibe you want.
11. Brayden
Brayden, Hayden, Jayden, Cayden—they all blur together. If you’re fine with dating someone whose name sounds just like half your friend group, go for it. But if you’re hoping for someone who stands out, maybe steer clear of this naming trend.
12. Richard
Unfortunately, Richard comes with an unflattering nickname that many people still joke about. While it’s not as common these days, the association lingers. Do you really want to hear that nickname tossed around for the rest of your life? Probably not.